Human nature defines
us as protective beings. Our daily routines and personality depict how we may
find this aspect of our attitude in almost every manner where we have to deal
with situations. We are protective of ourselves, our loved ones, the materials
and things we consider belong to us, our space. Marked and predefined most
likely by genetics in an evolutionary and survival skill, we may only disguise
the level and extent to which we show this side of ourselves.
Our protection then
translates into territoriality, and we enact our deepest feelings, so deep as a
matter of fact, that quite often, they happen subconsciously.
I expanded on the idea
of this walk, and decided to congregate several experiences, as to bring more
attention to the ideas that will follow. In widely different spaces, I set out
to find similar signs that mark specific aspects about territoriality, be it
race, gender, age, predefined spaces, etc.
The main aspect about
territoriality is that not everyone accepts its borders: people set out their
limits, and define space, yet others frequently bypass this. Ultimately what
defines the success of someone’s limits is the attitude they posses, and how
this plays off with other’s.
At a market, someone
would assume their territory, setting a precise space for themselves, and
separating it from the other stands, yet no one took offense in others “infringing”.
No, as a matter of fact, seldom would anyone even consciously consider this
trespassing. It seems that perhaps culture has taught us to have a certain room
for ourselves, and protect it, yet, culture has also taught us not to interfere
with someone else’s space, hence there is a certain compensation and a lack of
offense.
People roam around the
area, their territory marked even at the simplest and most natural level:
personal space; what we commonly refer to as “our bubble”. Here is where things
change, as finally, discomfort is displayed when others encroach this very
personal space. It becomes a matter of deep personality and levels of wellbeing.
One might think
themselves respectful and thoughtful of another’s personal space, yet truly it’s
something that primarily only communication can clarify. Certain people abstain
themselves from speaking out and verbalizing their limits.
To conclude, social
territory, or even territoriality in general is a changing aspect. It is a
matter that changes with age, culture, region, and personal preferences. And
the extent of its variation is greater than what is habitually assumed. Hence,
as a general rule we must learn to live, and let live; to be attentive of other
people’s changing attitude.
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